Showing posts with label growth. Show all posts
Showing posts with label growth. Show all posts

Monday, April 15, 2013

Things are gunna get real for a minute here: When I wrote this post, all I had in mind was having some well known blog that every hipster and their dog followed. One that had images pinned on boards of all kinds by people of all types, and, to be quite honest, that was just as typical as the next blog. Think white background with grey sans-serif font, perfectly edited pictures showing a dream life, making all my readers crave a life like mine because I was always doing fun things with my cute, perfect little family and living the dream. Then I read these two articles:        1                              2

they. changed. my. life.

Maybe it is really stupid to say that. Maybe super naive and childish of me. That I had to read an article I found via social media about everyone faking a perfect life to really clue in that that is the case. But people really do this! I'm sucked in just like the next idiot down the block! I follow a number of people on Instagram who post amazing pictures almost daily. Pictures of cross-country roadtrips with a malamute rescue, trips to Hawaii and Everest base camp and living in a cabin in the back country with some of the best snow on earth, and "thanks to so-and-so for sponsoring us! we love the gear!" Pictures of pregnant bellies building dream nurseries in picturesque locations, in a home that they own and is decorated and manicured to a T.....

and it goes on.

I don't want my social media outlets to make people think that I have a perfect life. I have a good life. I have an amazing family. An excellent husband who meets all my needs, though I don't always see it. And a baby that makes me excited to wake up every morning to see a toothy grin. She has big teeth just like her momma, and I like that. I try every single day to fill the gaps. I don't always think my life is awesome. Most of the time, I actually think my life is boring and sub-par. That I'm doing something wrong because I'm not as happy as my Instagram "friends" seem to be. But I make lists and plan projects and read books to help me fix that, if "fix" is even the right word...

So as of right now, that is what this is. A place for me to become a better writer and thinker, meet new
people, change my habits, inspire others, live intentionally, focus on the meaningful, and become more confident in how I think and feel. I hope you're okay with that (but if not, feel free to take a hike.)